Fatal ATTRACTIVENESS!!

"Maybe more Men would Stand up and be Gentleman, if More Women would sit down and Be Ladies!"

 Before you attract a man, you need to develop self-confidence.

If you're not happy with who you are, it'll show from a mile away. Men are most attracted to women who look like they're having fun with who they are, not those who are desperately seeking someone to fill a void in their lives.

Develop your own identity and standard of values.

 A man is attracted to a woman who feels comfortable with where she came from, where she is now, and where she is going. He wants someone who is comfortable with her desires, her limitations and her aspirations.

Maintain meaningful and loving personal connections.

 The key to feeling good about yourself is, to have a space to be yourself. Friends, family, and other personal interactions are necessary for you to feel loved and deserving of love. But don't base interactions as the only reason you find a way to feel better. Take alone time as well to find your inner peace and happiness. So that you don't search for someone to make you feel complete, you already are!

Look The Part!  Find clothes that emphasize your best attributes. If you have toned arms, go for a tank top, or if you want to show off your long legs, find the perfect dress and heels for your body. Dress appropriately for the occasion. If you're hoping to attract a man at a wedding, for example,  "LOOK CLASSY NOT TRASHY!!!" You don't want a man to think that your body is your best feature--it's just one of the things that makes you unique. However, if you're out at a club, avoid business-casual attire, which will make you stick out like a sore thumb, YET don't wear a barely there dress either!

  Have the right hair and make-up. Light hair and makeup maintenance can go a long way in emphasizing your best features. Most men prefer a natural look, so avoid trying too hard by applying too many layers of makeup or hairspray.

Love Your BODY!  Though a real man will love you for who you are, being health-conscious and working out will help you maintain a trim figure and will boost your confidence in the process. If you feel great about your body, any man you meet will feel the same. Exercise at least three times a week for at least thirty minutes, or more. A solid work-out regimen is essential to getting and staying healthy. Don't let your routine stagnant - keep challenging yourself as you get stronger and fitter. If you don't have a lot of time to set aside for exercise, consider ways in which you can add more walking to your daily routine. If you don't care for exercise (LIKE ME) find an external motivation – Dancing, Dog walks, Kickboxing etc.

Change your ways! I know a lot of us love our weekend BEER and Wine escapades, but it’s proven that a constant intake of alcoholic beverages increases belly fat and ages you much faster. I personally stopped drinking and I feel the difference and love it, it’s going on two years now! Moderation is the key in life, so take time to splurge on your favorite ice cream or pizza, while also taking time to eat lots of fruits, vegetables, and food that is rich in nutrients. Invest in a daily vitamin and increase your water intake. Avoid processed or greasy foods as much as you can. Your body will feel better, and your skin will look start to look awesome!