How to work it, without being obvious!

Chicks try Too hard and it shows, maybe the guys check them out, but not the way they were hoping for! You know what I mean.... walking swinging their rear end to an extreme left then right literally busting moves that could give you a broken hip, sticking their chest out so far that they look like they swallowed two blow fishes and whipping their hair back and forth giving their man a mouthful unwanted horse tail.
AND WE CONSIDER THIS SEXY?????
Even worse when they wear a slamming pair of higher than high heels and are walking like they fell out of a moving vehicle....if you don't know how to walk in heels, wear flats....Please!!!!

So you want your man to notice you and NOT laugh?
Be subtle you can wiggle and swing your hips, but not like Shakira!
Walk confidently with shoulders back, stand tall, and walk like a lady, not a desperate teenager!
The most attractive woman walk with this style! Check out the red carpet, golden globes and watch how some of the most admired woman hold themselves. :)

Being sexy at any size!

Not everyone will agree with me on this one, but try to have an open mind as well as a little maturity!
We all come in different sizes....Tall, short, thick, thin, chubby, bony, average, busty, hippy and many more!
The thing is you need to make what you have work and the only way to do that is to wear what goes with your BODY, not what you wish your body would look like!
Lets get specific.... If you are a size 10 don't try to squeeze into a size 1. Common sense!
If you are a woman age 35 don't try to dress like your 21!

If you have NO BOOBS don't try wearing two or three bra's to look bigger? REALLY??
Men notice, if you strip down he is going to wonder where the rest of your boob went?
Same goes for the ladies who wear Butt Pads, REALLY?

It looks nice with clothing on, but looks like Tyler Perry's Madea with clothes off!!!
Look there is someone for everyone out there!
You need to embrace the parts of you that you don't like.... and exaggerate the beautiful parts....are you with me? Lets explain......
Personally I don't like my nose, never have and probably never will, BUT I can tolerate my eyes, SO I wear makeup that opens, brighten and pops the eyes therefore taking most of the attention away from my defective nose!
Like Men, for example they wear colorful boxers with fire flames going up the back to hide that they have no BUTT at all!
Okay joking aside, lets start loving ourselves and finding one thing that we can display better to be able to carry ourselves with more confidence.

Hollywood Babes and their secrets!

So why is Pamela Anderson such a sexy bombshell?
What does Angelina Jolie have that Jennifer Doesn't?
What did Marilyn have that Jacqueline Kennedy couldn't compete with?

MYSTERY!
Men love a mysterious woman, a woman with the ability to keep things quiet and  a woman who doesn't need to impress with words!
CONFIDENCE
Men love when women can hold their own in a crowded room of beauties and make heads turn!
SPONTANEOUS
A man loves a woman who can make him laugh, who does crazy things and never sticks to the same old same old!
INDEPENDENCE
A total turn on, the last thing a man wants is a useless money sucker!
A woman who knows what she wants, has a future plan and can manage things on her own a long with her man's is what every guy marries.
PERSONALITY with a touch of UNIQUE
Be yourself and create your own style that suits your body. If a man wanted a barbie he wouldn't be with you, you need to be who you are and add a special touch to create something no one can copy!
MEN HATE NEEDINESS!!!
Just look at Chris Brown dumping RiRi because she is so needy?!?!
Whether she is or not it proves a point, you need a life so he can WANT you and MISS you enough to come back!
Okay those are some things, but the reality of it is MEN are VISUAL and if your HOT they notice!!!
You can be totally hot, but end up alone, WHY? Because you are hot without character!
You don't have anything else to offer so they have their FIVE minutes of hotel time and that is all you get!
You want to show your man that you are in deed "WOMAN" so with that I will be giving you simple steps to keep your man interested in YOU!

Kill his senses!

Ladies listen up this is very important if you want to truly be in all respect "WOMAN"

Sorry Gals, but dumping half a bottle of perfume on your sweaty body doesn't help,
it makes you smell like a skunk! Same goes for clothes you are to lazy to wash!
Yup you know what I mean!
Men are attracted to clean fresh scents that smell like bar soap and just out of a shower bath oil sexy!
Men don't really care for over the top strong smelling sprays as much as you don't like their axe covered bodies that give you an instant headache.
A LITTLE GOES A LONG WAY!

Another NO, NO, you love your newly straightened hair just out of the salon and you paid A LOT for it, so naturally you want it to last a few days!
Well he doesn't, you start to look greasy on your forehead, your head smells like oil and sweat and your going to lay on his chest so he can have your head up his nose????
Think of it this way, he comes home sweaty and nasty smelling and wants to cuddle???
Wash your hair every other day and use products with fragrance like styling gels and herbal essences mousse, they smell great and last longer.
Try different styles with your hair....Men absolutely love when a woman looks like another lady for a day, it's a fantasy, But with the lady he loves!

SHAVE!!!! Men hate prickles! They want to feel softness! Nothing is scarier than reaching for the napkins on a high shelf and seeing dark armpits.
Ladies you have a lot of competition out there like women on magazines with unrealistic airbrushed bodies and plastic parts.....SO take care of what you got and keep it Smooth!
I don't think I need to mention cleaning your ear wax and belly button, RIGHT?
Or brushing your teeth morning, noon and night?
Or washing your hands and cleaning under those acrylic nails/toes and stuff of that nature?
Personal hygiene can harshly affect a relationship, so if you want your man to notice you and not the lady who walks by smelling and looking like a million bucks, Keep Clean!

To be or not to be "WOMAN"!

SOOOO!!!! You think you got what it takes to be WOMAN?
Well let's see, if you dare!

Through the ages we have seen countless woman in the spotlight such as Audrey Hepburn, Marilyn Monroe, Elizabeth Taylor, Jacqueline Kennedy and so on, just to name a few. 
Even a cartoon like Jessica Rabbit, got the attention of MANY men. 

So what do these people have that you don't? 
HMMM?
Well ladies..... and men if you want to know this sort of stuff?
Sorry to tell you this, BUT looks matter A LOT! Wish I could tell you differently, but that's the truth!
Men are VISUAL!!!!
Okay lets get down to the purpose of this blog.....
I want to give you all the secrets, things your parents never taught you and more.
So you  know how to become.... WOMAN!!!!